Been doing this for 2 years almost. Been really ill, the other day one of my friends heard me making myself sick at school, and she said she won%26#039;t tell anyone, but aslong as I don%26#039;t get any worse. So I reaaaaly can%26#039;t let her see my wrists, coz there are some pretty obvious scars there, and she would definately tell on me. How can I hide it from her?|||ive been self harming for 5 years and its so hard to cover it up! i just wear long sleves and in summer if i got any scars round my wrsits i wear sweat bands! try and stop if you can i know its hard to stop i cant but it better in the long run , trust me ive got so many scars and i just look a mess cus of them
:( i hope you mange to stop!
xxXxx|||well i hide mine by wearing long sleve shirts al the time. dont let them look at ur arms i also wore bracelets to cover them up and when i couldnt hide it on my arms anymore i started to cut my legs. so try other parts of ur body that sre easier to hide.
the bullemia make sure u ahve a little food in ur system i was bullemc/ anorexic and i got so malnurished i passed out in school and was sen to a nutritionist so..... make sure u dont do it too much cuz u can hurt urself really badly with that disease im not telling u to stop cuz i never did but just be careful.|||If its not something you can shout about or tell people about then its usually something you shouldnt be proud of doing? Do you feel you can be happy about tellign people you cut yourself and feel proud, the same way as if you passed an exam? If not, you shouldnt really be doing it huh? The truth is i think you know you shouldnt be doing it.
Please talk to a counsellor about what you are trying to deal with. I cut for a year and then several other episodes one not so long ago, but it is soemthing thats not right and you should not continue doing it please look for alternatives that may help you become distracted from doing it. Find other ways to deal with stress when it comes your way - go for a run, jog, talk to your friends about whats troubling. Counselling isnt as bad as it seems - they really can help they are extremely friendly and you can talk freely about any issues that you may otherwise feel embarrased or guilty talking about.
Bulimia tends to stem from depression are there aspects of your life or yourself that make you feel depressed? Do you feel upset about the way you look? Bulimia wil do nothing but make it worse and make you feel bad about doing it the same with cutting, you need to deal with this from within, what do you feel about life your current situation are you talking about the real problem here? youre not right? Please talk about what it is thats affecting you, its up to you to make it better. You are your own best friend. :)
Oh and im here to talk to if you wish.|||i kno how hard it is... u jus gotta make sure u wear long sleeves all the time r if u wanna wear short sleeves arm warmers r awsome. i always wearlong sleeve jackets now n jus in case fishnet arm sleeves from hottopic under my jacket. it makes it harder to see ur arms.|||Dear, you telling/asking yourself how can I hide this is your Disease talking to you! you need to seek help!! physical and mental, it is a disease of both mind and body.Tell your PARENTS!!|||Please talk to a counselor at school! They%26#039;ll help you.
Do you really want to spend your young life puking %26amp; slicing?How fun is that?
Don%26#039;t hide. There%26#039;s nothing to be ashamed of!
There are support forums,doctors who specialize in this.
Please don%26#039;t waste your life.This is not a dress rehearsal.
People care about you!|||no sweetie, not gonna tell you how you can hide your pain. you have crossed a line and need professional help. for whatever reason your life feels out of control to you and you are trying have control in all the wrong ways. life is not supposed to be a tortured experience, either by the hands of others or self hurt. are you trying to kill yourself? have you/are you being abused? you need to talk to a counselor ASAP. you are not in a healthy place and need to regain balance in your life. your are in pain, but not processing what is causing you the pain. you are trying to run from the real issue by releasing your pain in small spurts. please start talking to someone. if you refuse to do that, please try to incorporate exercise, yoga and meditation to try to release some of your pain in a healthy way.
please get help, you are not well and need to find some peace.|||hey don%26#039;t so this to yourself it is horrible when your friends find out and it hurts them as well please i beg you get help and stop you%26#039;ve got a lot going for you whether you believe it or not...email me if you do please.... mizuho_babii@yahoo.com|||Why would you hide that from everybody? From your friend that may love and care for you?
Instead of thinking how to hide them you may want to think on how to stop that.
Why do you do that in the first place? You are probably sad, angry and frustrated. You probably think you are worthless and you won%26#039;t see any end to it, any light beyond the tunnel.
Well, there is a light, and there is aa way out.
Instead of hurting yourself again and again, you may go and make yourself useful to others: helping at an animal shelter, or with elder or disabled people, or people who have real problems, like hunger, drugs, poverty and abuse.
I suggest you read about the many women before you that hurt themselves or had bullimia and other problems. It is related to your genes and the way you were raised (your environment) and a deep pain you have inside. I know that, I%26#039;m a woman too and there are many ways of hurting ourselves or allowing others to hurt ourselves.
When boys get depressed, angry and frustrated, they tend to act out: hurt somebody else, even kill people (remember Columbine). But when women feel the same, we hurt ourselves (read about Angelina Jolie and how she hurt herself so much, and see how she%26#039;s dealing with anorexia now). But at least she makes herself useful to others.
It%26#039;s a long way, but believe me, it is not %26quot;hiding%26quot; how you are going to deal with the cause of it in the first place.
Take care friend.|||Hide it?? Do you want to die? That%26#039;s what will happen if you don%26#039;t get some help with this right now! Please talk to a counselor at school or your family doctor.|||You need to get help. Cutting yourself can cause infections and will leave permanent scars that you will regret it. bulimia is very bad. it is bad for your teeth and health. vomit has a very high pH with a lot of acid. The acid eats away your esophagus and will cause your gums to recede and can cause your teeth to fall out. Don%26#039;t hide them. If you are afraid to ask for help, let them show so that a teacher or an adult sees them and helps you get help.|||you just need to stop so you wont have to hide it|||This is something very serious, and you shouldn%26#039;t hide it any longer. Please tell your family about this; you need to expose it to the people around you, so that they can help you find real solutions such as speaking with a therapist. I know it%26#039;s very hard to do, but once you show it to people, it will become easier to get the help that you need. Show it to your parents, because they need to know that this is happening. Once they know, they will recognize that you need real help. As for the bullimia, you also need to tell someone as soon as possible. This is causing internal damage to your body. Even if you call a teen help-line, at least you will be able to speak with someone confidentially. I%26#039;ve called those lines before, and believe it or not, it led me to seeking real help for my depression at that time.
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